Destiny

Was still wondering what it means and who decides what ones destiny is going to be when, suddenly, in the midst of a heated debate with a friend, him being sober and three of us on cloud seven (it was only 4th round), it dawned on me - listen to your heart and you make your own destiny. Do what your heart says and it doesn't hurt much even though you don't get what you want. Do otherwise and you end up hating yourself. Wish I could make them understand this. Just hoping the damage isn't irreparable. Also hoping I'll get another chance. Just one more chance ........ Thanks to that friend for dragging me into the argument.
one other lesson I learnt yesterday was to never ever get drunk on a sunday :P.